Family crisis , I really need some help and advice - please , anyone?

the best I can tell you is to stay close to all you love even if some do not get along with the others. as to not worry about the future for the future will change in ways of your life. when you become 18 or 19 you should find some guy you like and may even become to get married. as this will set your life for you as they will be seen as relatives which will care for you. but you will not have to worry, for you will decide what is best for your new husband and yourself. as then you will also have your own home and live with the guy you have chose. so do not worry about your future for things will work out in time. so as the way things are now just go with the flow and try to stay close to all you love. but try not to become to be in the middle of such things as to have to decide which you should chose. as I said let them decide between themselves. as which ever way this goes you will love them and they will love you. as in time you will be able to control your own way of life and live in your own home and your own little family. and also go see your grandmother once and a while also, that will make her happy. it does not mean you have to live there just stay in touch with all that you love.