NBA refs are horrible?

ok, im not trying to ***** & complain here. but i love watching the nba & i think the refs have way too much influence on the outcome of too many games, I have thought this for a long time. i dont like favoritism given to stars, i dont like calling offensive fouls when everyone in the world can plainly see it was a flop & I dont like when they blow the whistle if you even get close to the guy on a fast break & give him an and 1. In the NFL it has always impressed me how good the refs can call games considering they are so far from the ball at times & bodies are flying & contorted on the ground but in the NBA there are 10 guys congested into a little area right in the refs face & they blow obvious calls...its just bad for the game. What do you think?